We asked what brides wanted to read about on our blog and today we are exploring one of those topics! Here's what a past bride said would have helped her when planning their wedding:
"Think a breakdown of wedding words (i.e. host bar vs cash bar vs open bar) that you find in venue contracts and such would have been a big help! Our venue contract was really easy and transparent, but I struggled a lot when looking at some other spots and reading through all the jargon! Would be helpful to have had a spot that cleared it up easily."
So here we go: a 'Wedding Dictionary'!
-Black Tie Optional: Tuxedos and formalwear are suggested for the guests, but not required.
-Cocktail Attire: A dress code that is less formal - calls for suits and cocktail dresses.
-Cosplay: Short for 'Costume Play' - can refer to period dress or theme dress as in paying homage to favorite movie/television/game/comic characters.
-Blusher: A short veil that covers the bride's face, aka. "shoulder length veil".
-Bridaller: Another word for a guest of a wedding.
-Bustle: The gathering up of extra fabric or a the train of your gown with buttons or ties to keep the hem of your gown from dragging on the floor.
-Cash Bar: When guests buy the drinks rather than them being 'free'/paid for by the host of the wedding at the reception.
-Garter: narrow bands of fabric fastened about the leg that the groom traditionally takes off the bride during the wedding and throws it to the single men, just like the bouquet toss.
-Host Bar: Where the host of the wedding issues vouchers to attendees for a limited number of free drinks, and attendees pay for any further drinks themselves.
-Open Bar: The host pays for all the drinks the entire night of the wedding, no limit per guest.
-Day of Planner: A wedding coordinator who works with you primarily on the day of the wedding to make sure everything goes smoothly (as opposed to a full-service planner who works with you throughout all of the months leading up to the wedding).
-Escort Cards: Cards that display the guest's name and indicate the table they have been assigned for the reception. Below left is a table of escort cards.
-Processional: The part of the ceremony in which the wedding party and bride walk down the aisle. This can also refer to the music that plays during this time.
-Recessional: The part of the wedding in which the newly married couple, followed by the wedding party, walk back down the aisle after the ceremony.
-Save The Date (STD): A "pre-invite" sent out ASAP to tell guests when the wedding will be.
-Tablescape: The arrangement of the place settings, centerpieces, table numbers, and other decorations on the reception tables.
-Trousseau: The clothes, linens, and other items that a bride saves for her wedding and new married life. Often includes pretty lingerie.
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